Process Lessons Learned Part III
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DO NOT ALLOW THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS TO SWAY YOU
One of the first things I did was Google “best shaving creams” or “best shaving soaps”. As soon as I saw the links on websites pointing where to buy these products on Amazon, I should have known better. Many people have their hand out, and therefore a vested interest, in what is “best”. I learned to ignore them.
And then I started to read reviews in forums or watch videos. And just about everything was perfect. Really? There is some discussion of this here
http://damnfineshave.com/thread-a-seriou...am-reviews with over 120 posts on the subject.
So other than “scent”, which is personal choice, I wondered if the people doing the reviews were using the same thing as I was. And this wasn’t just true in that some products were praised as perfect and I found wanting, but some of the “really good stuff” I thought overrated. Now the overrated rated stuff might be still be very good product, just not perfect as some espoused.
And then, IMO, the worst are a subset of the fanatics. Not those that like a particular brand and just enjoy it. Rather, the subset of fanatics who won’t tolerate any criticism of their chosen object of adoration. Do NOT let them sway you into believing anything. Trust yourself. Allow anything you read to just be input into your decision making process.
Be wary of:
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Perfect reviews. How many perfect products, any product, have you encountered in your life?
What happens when you see 3, 5, 10 perfect reviews from the same reviewer? “Perfect” becomes meaningless.
Have you come across ten perfect pizzas in your life from ten different restaurants?
I rapidly reached the point that when I saw that, I would ignore those reviewers. Any time I read a review calling a product absolutely perfect, now I just ignore that author if I see it being done time after time after time. If 8 or 10 products are absolutely perfect, then the scale upon which they judge things needs to be questioned.
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Agendas of reviewers. Are they doing reviews for altruistic reasons, personal reasons, or do they have an agenda trying to sell you something directly or indirectly including a lifestyle?
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Any evaluation process that is not identical to yours. Are your values the same? No? Then why are you paying attention to it? For example, if one reviewer pays attention to the container, and you don’t care about the container, then their overall score will be skewed by an attribute that has no value to you.
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Reviews where all attributes of a product are considered equal (e.g., If scent is not important to you, then why do you care what others think of the scent?) How is their score skewed by an attribute that you consider unimportant?
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Inexperienced reviewers. Experience matters. One of the first shaving creams I tried to lather was a product well known and regarded for easy lathering. You barely looked at it and within seconds, the lather explodes. I was SO NAÏVE.
That became my standard by which all others were judged. But that’s a mistake because few other products are on par with it and most never come up to that lathering standard. So there I was taking a lot longer to get one of those picture perfect lathers using other products and didn’t understand I had started at the top of the pyramid. My bad. Now that was inexperience.
Look at these poll results.
http://damnfineshave.com/polls.php?actio...lts&pid=16 The sweet spot is evident maybe between 11 – 70 individual soaps. For a hobbyist, that might actually be a LOT. For the guy just trying to save money, it’s probably far too many. What matters, is the actual sample size and if someone has tried over 200 products, I might listen to that person more than the person trying 11. And you don’t know that from just reading a random review.
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Pay no attention to pretty lather shots. The only lathering that matters is YOUR results. Besides, white lather is about impossible to see detail without everyone having calibrated monitors and high-resolution photos on 4K monitors, something virtually not done on the Internet. It usually just looks like a blown out white blob.
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Be particularly wary of those espousing adoration for inexpensive products if they criticize high end products. What is the probability they actually used the high end product, and even if they did, are simply not rationalizing? Whenever I read something like "this is the only thing you will ever need", that is someone pushing their agenda on you.
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DO BELIEVE crowd sourced, large sample size, and consensus. If you look across some large number (i.e., thousands of people or a large number of non-biased independent reviews across the population), and the same product come up over and over again as a top tier product, then chances are it is a top tier product.
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On the other hand - It if looks like a stinky skunk and smells like a stinky skunk and performs like a stinky skunk – chances are – yeah - it’s a stinky skunk. And yes, there are stinky skunks out there.
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Do you know everything you are allergic to? If you buy 100 different products, chances are some chemical will not agree with you. This is a reason why NOT to buy a lot of samples at once of the same brand. In other words, if you buy 10 samples from the same brand and are allergic to something in their formula, you might not be very happy. In fact, you might be throwing the money away.
To a certain degree this happened to me. One well known brand consistently caused me issues with allergic reactions. One fairly bad and a couple mild, but the same brand with different scents. However, the same thing can occur with scents. If you buy many samples of, for example Lavender Oil, and then you find out you are allergic to Lavender Oil – well you are not going to be happy with all those lavender samples you will be throwing out.
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Some stuff is golden, some stuff is garbage. All products are not equal. This goes back to the perfect 10 reviews. If you buy 100 samples and decide Brand A is garbage, you will dread seeing it again. And in the end you are comparing product A with product B. This is why it’s wise to buy samples and NOT full products. It’s also a reason why not to buy 10 samples from the same soap maker at the same time.
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Trust yourself. You’ve been alive 20, 30, 40, 50, etc. years. You know the scents you like and don’t like. You know what Roses, Lavender, Citrus, Coconut, etc. smell like. If you don’t like Lavender, then don’t try Lavender. It isn’t going to magically smell like roses. If you don’t like the formula in Brand A, its likely not going to be any better between scents. This is another reason it’s a good idea to NOT buy all the samples offered from the same soap maker at the same time. If you don’t like their formula, you will dread seeing the other 10 samples you haven’t tried yet.
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Have both an aftershave and balm ready. Some stuff might disagree with you and cause irritation. If you think every product you will try will be perfect, then you haven’t tried enough products. Having a soothing balm for those bad days is a good idea.
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You can shave with about any product on the market sold, provided it lathers. You might not want to or might not enjoy it but you can.