MntnMan62 I'm sure you cherish those moments with your son. We don't get much in the jazz line around here so I listen to lots of recordings. I used to go with my son to various drum clinics. I still remember his reaction after the Steve Smith clinic, he was blown away by the talent. I reminded him that Steve had been doing this for near on 50 years. Another memorable clinic was a tabla clinic which expanded our understanding of rhythm beyond western music. Steve Smith also discussed tabla and rhythm and how, before you could play it you must be able to say it. This guy explains it pretty well:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLU3921W_J8
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lLU3921W_J8